Three things to tell them
Where they are going, who will be there, and when they will see you again. The last one matters most: "I will see you back at the same park on Sunday afternoon" settles a child faster than any amount of reassurance.
If you can, walk through the venue beforehand so the place is already familiar, and pack the bag together the night before, so nothing is rushed on the day and your child knows what is coming with them.
The face they are leaving
Children at a changeover watch the face of the parent they are leaving. If you look upset, they read it as evidence that being happy to go is a betrayal.
Saying plainly that you want them to have a good time, and that you will be fine, lifts a weight most children carry without ever mentioning it.
A familiar face
We provide a photo of the allocated supervisor in advance, so your child recognises their support person on arrival, and where appropriate we can arrange a short introductory call or meeting first.
It helps to explain the supervisor's job in your child's own terms: they are the person who says hello, walks you across, and makes sure everything goes smoothly.
Child familiarisation session
For children who are not yet ready to begin contact: a one-hour session at the child's home, where they meet their supervisor somewhere familiar and unpressured. The supervisor answers the child's questions, explains what will happen in age-appropriate terms and begins to build trust, and a written report follows.
It is $220 on a weekday and $280 on a weekend, and we recommend it strongly. Mention it during your intake.